For friends and readers in the Central New York area, I have some events scheduled to promote my memoir, Stunted: A Memoir of Delayed Manhood (Toplight Books, an imprint of McFarland and Company, 2026).

I’ll be giving a reading and signing books at Parthenon Books on Salina Street in downtown Syracuse this Saturday, July 25 at 1 p.m. I’m also excited to use up $15 in store credit.

A “Local Author Talk” is scheduled for 6 p.m. on Thursday, July 30 at Utica Public Library on Genesee Street in Utica.

And on Saturday, August 8, I’ll be joining other writers at a Local Author Showcase at the Barnes & Noble store in Dewitt. The time is 2 to 4 p.m.

For those unfamiliar with the book, here is a description, along with some archival photos (which appear in black and white in the book).

Overview of Stunted:

For most children, puberty marks their rite of passage into the cusp of adulthood—a time of profound physical and emotional transformation. It’s a period where they grapple with questions about identity, their place in the world, and what they desire from life’s experiences.

Here’s me, likely in the mid-1980s.

For Francis DiClemente, during his turbulent adolescent and early adult years spanning 1984 to 1995, frustration and shame consume him. When he turns fifteen, his growth stops, and he watches helplessly as his friends cross through puberty and into adulthood. Doctors diagnose him with hypopituitarism, uncovering a tumor engulfing his pituitary gland. Yet the removal of the tumor fails to fix the problem. DiClemente enters college as a youthful, androgynous figure—a prodigy sans the hyper-smarts.

During my college years, in the late 1980s.

He lags behind his male peers in every aspect—lacking the stature, hair growth, and muscle definition that come naturally to others his age. This disparity further erodes his self-confidence, particularly in his interactions with women.

When DiClemente leaves his childhood home after college and embarks on a career in journalism, he discovers a new perspective on masculinity. Living independently and embracing this responsibility, he learns that manhood is determined by behavior, not physical characteristics.

Through the lens of personal experience, Stunted: A Memoir of Delayed Manhood delves into the universal themes of belonging and resilience, providing a message of hope and inspiration for those navigating their paths of self-acceptance.

With my cousins Fiore DeCosty (left) and Derek DeCosty (standing) with our grandmother, Josephine, in the bottom right of the frame (1990).